Friendship?? Do you understand the word? Do you? Really?? But sometimes friendship hurts.. They do when one of you doesn't really care about the other's feelings OR..too much care??
Is there be any wrong to be friended with the opposite gender? If they really are close, are there gonna be people who gonna be jealous or judge them badly? Would there be any wrong if a boy and a girl are friends; a man and a woman are friends?
Here's the issue:
When a girl is really comfortable in having a good terms of friendship with a guy.. no..!! i mean GUYS..(mark the plural), would there be any wrong? SO, why do the other girls are feeling so discontent?
Are they jealous of not having such bond? Hah! No I dont think so… I just think they have so much time but less spice gossips.. So they tend to create a story so they might end up having a good long chit chat themselves..
Not to be offended girls… I myself am a girl too.. I do gossip but humbly must I said, Im spending my life now trying to change to become a better person.. I may not reach there yet.. but at least Im keeping my pace slowly than not at all.
All right…. then, let us look at the friendship of a girl with a girl.. hahaha… DRAMA.. thats the word.. In any friendship between girls… they must be a drama happened in between.. never ever slip out. Sometimes, both are trying to get each other's nerves by making fun of each others.. Ouhh yess.. thats definitely gonna tighter your bonds but in excessively manner… errmmmm… i think..NOT…
Havent they heard that most jokes are real, they came from the heart.. So, making it into a funny connotation would sound less harsh.. thats the way.. I guess thats the Malaysians way to actually 'tegur' kawan.. but crapp la korang.. stop that.. that would take you nowhere..
You guys know that what your friends made joke of you are the truth and you holding it for some times.. the anger keep building up..the thoughts of having a good revenge is clear and you start to find her weakness/bad habits/mistakes.. when you have the right moment, ha! c'est parti!! Venting out session is commencing!! Both are going to be hurt.. UGHHH….GIRLSSS… typical!!
Sometimes, there are things left to be unsaid.. just keep your mind shut and zip your mouth tight. Thats is why Allah letting us having THOUGHTS.. So that we can monologize whatever we want and not spit directly out from our mouth right away..
No..no..no… that's not all..there's more to come.. venting out session is done, now here comes the Apologise, Forgive and Forget moment.. This is the best part: WHO'S GONNA START FIRST?
Both are afraid to apologise or may think they are not the one who should apologise FIRST? Ego takes control from here. You're not gonna lose anything if you make the first move sweetie.. In fact you are the winner over your own ego.. Thats how mature people do. :)
Most of the times, friendship will heal itself.. time is the cure.. you dont need to beg for forgiveness, or waiting for one.. But with a simple smile or having a small talk to get back on the track will be enough. But this is not going to work on BIG issues.. would really need an AFF moment.. a long talk..
GIRLSSS..SERIOUSLYYYY…cant you be a little bit lay back.. embrace the others' differences. These are what making each and everyone around you so special. You might need to have a good ERASER for your brain, heart and soul to completely rub off those bad memories. Try not to label people, judge people as if you're perfect..
REMEMBER.. when you are judging people, there are a lot more out there judging you right now..
P/S: mungkin juga khilaf aku, memaksa sekeliling untuk lebih matang diwaktu mereka tak mampu berada di landasan yang bertongkatkan fikiran sendiri..
Is there be any wrong to be friended with the opposite gender? If they really are close, are there gonna be people who gonna be jealous or judge them badly? Would there be any wrong if a boy and a girl are friends; a man and a woman are friends?
Here's the issue:
When a girl is really comfortable in having a good terms of friendship with a guy.. no..!! i mean GUYS..(mark the plural), would there be any wrong? SO, why do the other girls are feeling so discontent?
Are they jealous of not having such bond? Hah! No I dont think so… I just think they have so much time but less spice gossips.. So they tend to create a story so they might end up having a good long chit chat themselves..
Not to be offended girls… I myself am a girl too.. I do gossip but humbly must I said, Im spending my life now trying to change to become a better person.. I may not reach there yet.. but at least Im keeping my pace slowly than not at all.
All right…. then, let us look at the friendship of a girl with a girl.. hahaha… DRAMA.. thats the word.. In any friendship between girls… they must be a drama happened in between.. never ever slip out. Sometimes, both are trying to get each other's nerves by making fun of each others.. Ouhh yess.. thats definitely gonna tighter your bonds but in excessively manner… errmmmm… i think..NOT…
Havent they heard that most jokes are real, they came from the heart.. So, making it into a funny connotation would sound less harsh.. thats the way.. I guess thats the Malaysians way to actually 'tegur' kawan.. but crapp la korang.. stop that.. that would take you nowhere..
You guys know that what your friends made joke of you are the truth and you holding it for some times.. the anger keep building up..the thoughts of having a good revenge is clear and you start to find her weakness/bad habits/mistakes.. when you have the right moment, ha! c'est parti!! Venting out session is commencing!! Both are going to be hurt.. UGHHH….GIRLSSS… typical!!
Sometimes, there are things left to be unsaid.. just keep your mind shut and zip your mouth tight. Thats is why Allah letting us having THOUGHTS.. So that we can monologize whatever we want and not spit directly out from our mouth right away..
No..no..no… that's not all..there's more to come.. venting out session is done, now here comes the Apologise, Forgive and Forget moment.. This is the best part: WHO'S GONNA START FIRST?
Both are afraid to apologise or may think they are not the one who should apologise FIRST? Ego takes control from here. You're not gonna lose anything if you make the first move sweetie.. In fact you are the winner over your own ego.. Thats how mature people do. :)
Most of the times, friendship will heal itself.. time is the cure.. you dont need to beg for forgiveness, or waiting for one.. But with a simple smile or having a small talk to get back on the track will be enough. But this is not going to work on BIG issues.. would really need an AFF moment.. a long talk..
GIRLSSS..SERIOUSLYYYY…cant you be a little bit lay back.. embrace the others' differences. These are what making each and everyone around you so special. You might need to have a good ERASER for your brain, heart and soul to completely rub off those bad memories. Try not to label people, judge people as if you're perfect..
REMEMBER.. when you are judging people, there are a lot more out there judging you right now..
P/S: mungkin juga khilaf aku, memaksa sekeliling untuk lebih matang diwaktu mereka tak mampu berada di landasan yang bertongkatkan fikiran sendiri..
